Death is a tragic reality we all have to face in our lives. Our friends, family, neighbors, work colleagues, fellow church members, and people we admire or look up to – there’s no shortage of people that are touched by death, and we are left behind to mourn them. There is an immeasurable emptiness in your heart when your loved one passes. You need Bible verses for mourning.
The pain you experience can’t be put in words. The realization that you will never be able to exchange words, a smile, or a hug with the one who is so dear to you crushes you and breaks you down inside. Tears flow until there are no more tears left. The hurt can be understood only by someone who has gone through the same devastating journey. I promise there is hope for you.
Bible Verses for Mourning
In the Bible, we come across the stories of many people — those who love God, those who don’t; their loves, lives, and everything else in between. Just as with us, these people faced death, whether their own, those that they loved, or those they stood in opposition to. Standing in contrast to the specter of death is the hope of resurrection, being raised to life in new immortal bodies to live upon a new heaven and new earth (1 Corinthians 15).
However, this hope of being raised again into new life through Jesus Christ does not mean that people in the Bible do not mourn. They continue to mourn loss, but they do so with hope that death doesn’t have the last say.
There are many stages of grief, one of which is anger. When you get angry and frustrated at God, it causes you to question and doubt God’s goodness and whether there is meaning to your life.
When we encounter such tough situations, we can know that we aren’t alone in feeling these things because the people in the Bible struggled in similar ways. The human experience transcends the particularity of our circumstances, and that makes the people in the Bible kindred spirits with whom we can commune and from whom we can learn.
For example, David’s words when his estranged son died are heart wrenching, and we can only begin to guess at the depths of pain in which he was wallowing.
And the king was deeply moved and went up to the chamber over the gate and wept. And as he went, he said, “O my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! Would I had died instead of you, O Absalom, my son, my son!” – 2 Samuel 18:33
And so, the following verses not only give us the room, permission, and support we need to mourn our loved ones, but they bring hope in the midst of our mourning. Though we experience pain when a loved one dies, and we go through a process of grieving that can take us from anger, despair and other emotions, there is light and comfort available to us.
God is with you in your time of need.
Death and loss may make us feel isolated, and maybe even abandoned by God. We may find ourselves crying out, “Why, Lord?” In such seasons, it’s an act of faith to trust that God is still there, that he is not absent or uncaring. God reminds us, through his own weeping when he walked on the earth, that death is painful and upends our lives. And he reminds us that he is present, that he will carry us through our seasons of hardship.
The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. – Psalm 34:18
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. – 2 Corinthians 1:3-4
My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. – Psalm 73:26
Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. – Psalm 23:4
Jesus wept. – John 11:35
Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted. – Matthew 5:4
Death doesn’t foreclose hope.
Death seems to have an air of finality about it. However, the Bible reminds us that death doesn’t have the last word.
But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep. – 1 Thessalonians 4:13-14
In a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised imperishable, and we shall be changed. For this perishable body must put on the imperishable, and this mortal body must put on immortality. When the perishable puts on the imperishable, and the mortal puts on immortality, then shall come to pass the saying that is written: “Death is swallowed up in victory.” “O death, where is your victory? O death, where is your sting?” The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. – 1 Corinthians 15:52-57
For the Lord will not cast off forever, but, though he cause grief, he will have compassion according to the abundance of his steadfast love; for he does not willingly afflict or grieve the children of men. – Lamentations 3:31-33
He will swallow up death forever; and the Lord God will wipe away tears from all faces, and the reproach of his people he will take away from all the earth, for the Lord has spoken. – Isaiah 25:8
For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal. – 2 Corinthians 4:17-18
For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. – Romans 8:38-39
I know that my redeemer lives, and that in the end he will stand on the earth. And after my skin has been destroyed, yet in my flesh I will see God; I myself will see him with my own eyes – I, and not another. How my heart yearns within me! – Job 19:25-27
Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die; and whoever lives by believing in me will never die. Do you believe this?” – John 11:25-26
He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away. – Revelation 21:4
I will ransom them from the power of the grave; I will redeem them from death. Where, O death, are your plagues? Where, O grave, is your destruction? – Hosea 13:14
We don’t weep alone.
Not only does God stand with us in our mourning, but he has also placed people around us who can come alongside us when we are in mourning. Whether it’s our family, church members, friends, or people in a grief counseling group, we can have people that walk with us as we mourn our loss.
Then David and the people who were with him raised their voices and wept until they had no more strength to weep. – 1 Samuel 30:4
Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. – Romans 12:15
Give all your worries to Him, because He cares for you. – 1 Peter 5:7
For this God is our God for ever and ever: he will be our guide even unto death. – Psalm 48:14
Conclusion.
Death and loss of loved ones is painful, and mourning is a natural response to it. The more emotionally attached we are to someone, the deeper we feel the pain, loss, and grief. You don’t have to be stuck in despair and sorrow, because the sense of finality that death presents isn’t the whole story.
The Christian hope is that there is life beyond death, both for the one who has died, and the ones they leave behind. You can have purpose and meaning in your life even after you lose a loved one.
The biggest hope for those who are facing loss is the promise to be reunited with your loved one once again when God will call you to your eternal home. Even if it is hard for you to admit now, our perfect, eternal Father has a purpose through your suffering. If you find that you’re struggling to see or feel the light, you can reach out to a grief therapist or look for a grief support group that will walk with you.
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Kristina Banaitis: Author
I am humbled and honored to be a vessel of God to serve others as a therapist. As a licensed counselor, my passion is to provide Christian counseling to individuals, families, and groups struggling with a wide variety of concerns, including anxiety,...
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